This time of year can be very depressing for
people, no one to smooch, or to be smooched by.
Valentine’s Day has a special memory for
me. It was three Valentine’s ago that my
wife handed me the divorce papers and as they
say in comedy, “Timing is everything”.
So it’s Valentine’s and the pressure
is on, to either please your lover, or to have
a lover. Now right now, I have no lover to speak
of, but I am in love. I am not referring to a
person, I am referring to falling in love with
fun itself. I love fun. I love the smell, the
sight and the plethora of good feelings that
fun gives me. I love fun in the morning, the
afternoon and anytime in the evening.
From my research I have learned that in order
to have a lot of fun in your life you must love
it. I meet so many people that rarely pursue
having fun on a regular basis. They might even
be grouped into the boring category. That is
the reason they are boring. They are not passionate
about enjoying life and having fun.
We have more opportunity and access to having
fun than at any other point in history. We set
goals so that we can achieve happiness by pursuing
things that we think will make us happy. Why
not just set a goal to be happy. To have fun
wherever and whenever possible? This seems so
simple. To just set a goal for happiness.
When you love something you become passionate
about it. Passion pulls motivation out of your
soul that you probably didn’t know existed.
Get passionate about fun and you will find that
you will be laughing and giggling more than you
thought possible. Fall in love with the act of
having fun this Valentine’s Day and whether
you are single or not you probably won’t
give a damn.